
(via tigerleli)
The balls to try and pull that off with the professor of criminology, though.
You can tell which one’s really from a professor because the fake one has that professional sign off and the real ones end in “Sent from my iPhone”
(Source: tastefullyoffensive)
reasons i want to be rich
- to randomly fill up people’s entire gofundme’s
- to be able to tip a thousand dollars to a stressed server at a restaurant
- to give really good gifts for birthdays that arent just gift cards
- to be able to actually afford my real sense of style
- to pay my mom’s bills and debts
reasons i dont want to be rich
- to hoard the entire fucking planet’s resources and kill off the world’s population slowly
when people ask me if I’m okay: no bitch!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Someone: *asks for advice*
Me: just casually destroy your perception of reality and reconstruct it
I feel like a good 25% of the messages I receive are people performing social charity. basically social charity is a term I just made up referring to when people say something nice to a marginalized group member, not out of kindness, but in order to feel good about themselves. Like when people call someone with a physical disfigurement “so beautiful!” even though they dont really believe that. or when they tell an overweight woman that performs hyper femininity that she’s “so confident!” as if she isn’t supposed to be. some examples of messages I’ve received like this are when people tell me I’m “so brave” as if I have to be brave as a passable trans woman. or when someone told me “you’re so beautiful! one day you’ll find someone that’ll love you!” when I’ve had a boyfriend since my 4th month on hrt. generic messages like “keep fighting!” “no matter what people say, you are beautiful” & “stay strong!” are all token messages of positivity that cis people give to lgbt people out of the assumption that all of our lives are just like whatever the last lgbt tear jerker they read or watched & its never prompted by a specific event in that persons life but rather solely by their identity. its ingenuine & i’m not flattered by it.
Trying so hard to stay positive and motivated
ah i know this is obvious advice but like: dont let your friends vaguepost about you. its disrespectful and passive aggressive and makes it a lot harder to facilitate safe discussions. also dont vaguepost about your friends thats childish
2019 isn’t going to be any different unless you actually put effort in to change it
today’s kids will never understand the horrors of having to share ONE computer with the whole damn family